Start #back2school strong
From the Cool Cat Teacher Blog by Vicki Davis
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Heading back to school with the right attitude is vital to our success as educators. These are important days, days that change everything. Educator, your importance is tremendous!
You know why you’re so important?
Well, you can change everything about a kid’s life. There are few turning points in life. First days of school are often life-changers.
This summer, a father told me a heartbreaking story about his daughter. Her first-grade teacher told her,
“I just don’t like you.”
Oh my goodness! Who would say such a thing? And the father said that day his daughter decided school just “wasn’t for her.” One remark changed everything about life. Everything.
But many educators change kids for good. Some educators even roll out the red carpet! You have so much influence! You can change a life! Who gets to do that?
Great educators transform lives one child at a time. But changing lives isn’t enough, our profession is about improving them.
The “To Do’s” are Important
During opening day, some educators only mention what kids should not do. They never tell kids what to do!
We want kids to…
- Love learning.
- Be kind.
- Get excited.
- Ask good questions!
We must say “yes,” not just “no.”
All things considered, I will not measure my success by how many kids don’t go to jail or don’t end up homeless. In the long run, I’d rather measure success by how many do great things.
What Anybody Can Do
Any person can walk into a school building with a scowl on their face, and angrily tell kids rules.
Anybody can do that. Reading rules takes no imagination. Not to mention, just reading rules builds no excitement. Rules might be required, but they are rarely riveting. (Unless you’re minions. Grin
Just about anybody who can read can go to school and read a script that they wrote, or even worse someone else wrote for the first day.
Some people are so busy giving kids the rules that they never give them the right! Some educators so want to prevent a repeat of a bad experience with a child last year, that they don’t set themselves up for the good experiences this year! Learn from the past. Then, LET IT GO.
What the Exceptional Educator Can Do
But it takes a transformational leader to change things for the better.
- Excite them.
- Call students by name.
- Plan an epic beginning.
- Be glad that they’re there!
You’re excited and nervous –they are too! So we’re all nervous! Let’s get past our nerves. In addition, let’s start having fun learning!
You’re going to spend far too many days at school this year to risk being bored and unhappy! It all starts on this first day. It all starts with you.
Be Happy to Be There
Have you ever seen it? It happens at the mall sometimes. Sometimes it happens at the movie theater. You walk in. You see a friendly person. This person is just smiling at everybody. And laughing. And making jokes. Just happy to be there. I want to be THAT person wherever I am.
Once someone told me that when you smile you release certain chemicals that make you happier. So this statement “fake it till you make it” is pretty accurate when it comes to smiling.
Some People Stew in Pain
We wouldn’t dream of giving a child a bath in radioactive waste. But do we think nothing of complaining, fussing, and cussing in front of kids. What’s the difference? Toxic waste poisons a person from the outside in. Toxic attitudes poison people from the inside out.
Toxic wasted buried underground is horrible. But, I think I’m more afraid of the kind of toxic waste buried in people’s hearts.
Is wallowing in our pain going to bring us pleasure? Will it make us better teachers to count our many miseries?
Certainly, many people have hard lives. But negative people make living harder than necessary.
Your Classroom Starts with You
Let me tell you something. The person in the front office is responsible for the person in the front office. If you’re mad at someone in the front office, why take it out on the kids in your classroom?
All things considered, the kids in your classroom need you to think about them when you go in their classroom. When you close the door, and you are away from everyone, the front office or the person next to you is irrelevant.
It’s just you and the kids.
And if you’re harsh to those kids because of someone you’re mad at somewhere else in the school, then you’ve done wrong.
You make the weather in your classroom. When you close the classroom door, that classroom is what you make of it with your students.
Back to School Principles for Principals
If you are a principal, the same applies to you. I don’t care what’s going on the district office. I don’t care what horrible things you deal with. (OK, I do care, but I’m trying to make a point.) Here’s the thing: Kids don’t know. So, the kids don’t care. They can’t.
All the kids care about is how you treat them. That’s all they know. Not, Mr. Jones is dealing with some difficult situations right now. Kids are not able to comprehend that. In all honesty, as teachers, we can’t either.
In essence, a million miles spans the distance between the teacher’s side of the desk (mine) to yours (the principal.) That is true.
But most people see a me–centered view of the world.
People aren’t wired to think about another’s struggles. In the end, people are wired to think about their own. They’re going to form their opinion on what you think of them on that first day. Are you going to make a great impression? Are you going to be a leader?
Principal, somehow you have to find it in you to leave those burdens in your top desk drawer. Then, you have to walk out and greet people with a smile, a handshake, and joy. Somehow.
You are important!
You are important because the future is important. Even more, kids are important.
What makes you even more valuable, is that some people in our profession don’t realize the importance of kindness, professionalism, excitement, energy, and doing the right thing by kids. They have their own me-centered approach to school. And they miss out. It makes me sad for them.
Schools are not here to give teachers and principals jobs. Our jobs exist to help educate kids so they can have a bright future.
You can do it! I know it’s hard. I know it’s difficult. I know it’s hard to push aside all the stresses and worries of the day and start school.
But whatever you do, love the kids.
Do your best.
Give them a smile.
Love on them.
And remember that great learning starts with a great relationship and a great relationship starts on day one.